About Lidia
Lidia Atencio is a licensed professional clinical counselor (LPCC) practicing in New Mexico. She brings 16 years of experience helping people navigate anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship stress. Her manner is warm and nonjudgmental, focused on practical steps clients can use day to day.
She uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and cognitive behavioral tools to help people notice thoughts and choose actions that match their values. Attachment-based and client-centered approaches shape how she builds trusting conversations about painful experiences.
Background and approach
The Gottman Method informs her work when relationship patterns are part of the concern. Many clients come for help with phobias, panic, and patterns that limit daily life. She also addresses parenting strain, grief, substance concerns, attention differences, and anger.
Sessions focus on clear goals, simple skills, and small changes that add up over time. Lidia works with people who have experienced abuse or physical trauma and helps them reconnect with safety and routine. She uses straightforward language rather than clinical jargon, so conversations are easy to follow even when emotions run high.
Her approach begins with acceptance and respect. From there she helps create achievable steps and practices to reduce distress and improve relationships, sleep, or daily functioning. She invites each person to move at their own pace and build skills they can use long after sessions end.
How therapeutic approaches translate to online care
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts, clarify what matters to them, and take small actions that match those values. Online sessions can include exercises and brief between-session practices to build those habits. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying thought and behavior patterns and trying new ways of responding; it often uses short practical tasks that work well with video or messaging follow-ups. Attachment-Based Therapy centers on how early relationship patterns affect current connections and helps clients practice new ways of relating during conversations.Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will listen to your goals and concerns, explain options, and adapt methods based on what feels most useful. Clients and therapist make decisions collaboratively and adjust the plan as progress is made.
Online formats - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text messaging - offer flexibility for different needs. Video lets you work face to face for interactive exercises. Phone can be easier on low bandwidth days or when you prefer not to be on camera. Live chat and text messaging are useful for short check-ins, skill practice, or when scheduling makes a synchronous conversation difficult. These options help fit therapy into busy lives and keep momentum between sessions.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 16 years
- Licensed
- New Mexico
- Languages
- English
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