About Femi
Femi Carty is a BACP counsellor who helps people facing anxiety, depression, grief and relationship concerns. He also supports those dealing with stress, parenting strains, addiction, ADHD and issues around intimacy and self‑esteem. He works with people who are coping with major life changes, trauma and family conflict.
Femi keeps sessions straightforward and practical. He listens without judgement and helps people spot patterns in thoughts, feelings and behaviour. Together with each person he looks for realistic ways to manage symptoms and improve day‑to‑day coping.
Background and approach
He uses a flexible, integrative approach tailored to the person in front of him. That means he draws on different methods depending on what a client needs, rather than following a single template. The aim is to find what helps someone feel more confident and in control.
Femi has four years of professional experience and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. He offers appointments across the United Kingdom and accepts international clients who can take part in online sessions. Sessions are available by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging.
Evening video appointments start from 6:00pm UK time, and telephone slots are offered throughout the day. He encourages a first assessment to map current concerns and set goals together.
How attachment work, CBT and person-centred care translate online
Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds shape current relationships and emotional responses. Online sessions can help people spot patterns in connection, trust and closeness and try new ways of relating in everyday life. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings and actions. In an online setting this often means tracking specific thoughts and testing small behavioural experiments between sessions to reduce anxiety and improve mood. Client-Centred Therapy puts the person’s experience at the heart of the work. The counsellor listens and reflects, helping people find their own solutions and clearer priorities. Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options and decide together which methods fit a person’s goals and preferences. That collaborative process can change over time as needs shift. Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when that matters. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier to fit into a busy day. Live chat and text messaging are useful for shorter check-ins, quick problem-solving or people who prefer writing. These options make it simpler to keep continuity and bring therapeutic tools into daily life.Questions people ask
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Parenting issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Traumatic brain injury
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 4 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English
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