About Rochelle
Rochelle Nakoa is a licensed clinical social worker who helps people facing anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship struggles, and addiction. She supports those coping with grief, parenting stress, career shifts, and challenges like ADHD and compassion fatigue. Rochelle practices from Missouri and brings 13 years of clinical experience to her work.
Her approach is practical and person-focused. She listens first, then helps clients name what is most painful. Sessions often include writing or organizing thoughts to clarify feelings and choices.
Background and approach
Rochelle aims to reduce shame and make change feel possible. Rochelle blends methods that center the person and look at patterns in relationships. She uses Attachment-Based and Client-Centered ideas to explore how past bonds affect current trust and closeness.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy tools help people spot unhelpful thinking and try different behaviors. She also draws on existential ideas to help people face life’s big questions and find meaning after loss or major change. For couples or relationship concerns she applies elements of the Gottman Method to improve communication and manage conflict more constructively.
Rochelle’s style is straightforward and compassionate. She works with each person to set clear goals and practical steps. Sessions can include talk, written exercises, and skill practice aimed at real-world problems like sleep, eating, or managing anger.
People who want a therapist who listens without judgment and focuses on doable change may find her approach helpful. Her background includes work with hospice, military populations, and correctional settings, which shaped her work with sexual trauma and intimate partner violence.
How attachment, client-centered, and CBT work online
Rochelle often uses Attachment-Based ideas to look at how early bonds shape current relationships and trust. This helps when people struggle with closeness, abandonment fears, or repeated relationship patterns.She also practices Client-Centered Therapy, which centers the person’s experience. That means sessions focus on being heard, organizing thoughts, and identifying what a person needs to change their life in a way that feels authentic.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to spot unhelpful thoughts and test new behaviors. CBT offers simple strategies for sleep, eating, anxiety, and mood that can be practiced between sessions.
Deciding which approach to use is a collaborative process. The therapist listens to your goals and preferences, then suggests methods to try. Adjustments are made along the way so the work fits your needs and pace.
Online therapy offers flexible ways to connect: video calls for a face-to-face feel, phone sessions when bandwidth is limited, live chat for quick check-ins, and text-based messaging for brief updates or reflection. These options make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, maintain continuity during life changes, and try different formats to see what helps most.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Addictions
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- HIV / AIDS
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 13 years
- Licensed
- Missouri
- Languages
- English
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