About Robert
Robert Backai is a counsellor and psychotherapist based in the United Kingdom. He uses straightforward, practical methods to help people manage stress, anxiety, depression and trauma. He also supports those facing sexual and intimacy concerns, relationship problems, and difficulties with addiction or self-esteem.
Robert works in a collaborative way. He listens closely and tailors sessions to each person’s needs. Sessions aim to build skills for coping and to find clear, manageable steps forward.
Background and approach
Over six years he has worked with a wide range of issues including grief, sleep and eating difficulties, anger, and career stress. He also has experience with concerns linked to chronic pain, body image, and ageing. This broad experience informs how he chooses practical techniques for each person.
Robert draws on approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy and Trauma-Focused Therapy. These methods are used to help people change patterns of thought, set short-term goals, and process distressing events at a pace that suits them. Sessions are available in English and are delivered online by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging.
Getting started involves a short matching questionnaire and scheduling based on availability.
Using practical therapy approaches online
Robert uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and test new ways of thinking and behaving. CBT is useful for anxiety, low mood and problems like sleep or eating difficulties.He also uses Solution-Focused Therapy to set short-term, achievable goals. This approach is goal-oriented and helps people identify small changes that make daily life feel more manageable.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss clients' aims and preferences and together decide which method or mix of methods to try. That collaborative planning helps keep sessions focused and relevant to each person's situation.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when helpful. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can fit into a work break. Live chat or text messaging can be useful for shorter check-ins or when writing feels easier than speaking. These options help people fit therapy around home and work commitments and choose the format that suits them best.
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What this therapist works with
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- Addictions
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 6 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English
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