About Nicola
Nicola Barnard is a counsellor who uses practical, person-focused approaches to help people manage stress and anxiety. She offers calm, straightforward support for those facing loss, low mood, confidence issues and life transitions. Her style is steady and encouraging, aimed at helping someone take the first steps toward feeling better.
She draws on cognitive behavioural techniques to help spot unhelpful thought patterns and ACT - Acceptance and Commitment Therapy - to clarify values and guide small, achievable changes.
Background and approach
Attachment-based ideas shape how she understands close relationships and the impact of early connection on current struggles. Sessions are conversational and grounded in real-life problem solving. Nicola has four years of professional experience and is listed with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP.
That background informs how she plans sessions and keeps therapy focused on practical progress. She works with people who are neurodiverse and with both adults and children, using adjustments where needed to make sessions clearer and more comfortable. In a session Nicola listens, reflects and offers tools you can try between meetings.
Topics commonly covered include parenting strains, career stress, grief, chronic health challenges and ADHD-related difficulties. The aim is to build small skills that make daily life easier. Her approach brings calm structure to difficult moments.
Nicola supports people as they explore values, learn coping strategies and rebuild confidence at their own pace.
How different approaches shape online therapy
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on identifying what matters to you and taking small steps that align with those values, even when feelings are difficult. It can help with anxiety, low mood and motivation by shifting attention toward purposeful action rather than fighting every uncomfortable thought.Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours connect, and teaches practical techniques to change patterns that keep problems going. It is useful for anxiety, stress, phobias and depressive symptoms because it offers concrete tools to test and shift unhelpful thinking.
Attachment-based ideas are used to understand how past relationships affect current ones and emotional reactions. This helps when relationship patterns, trust or feeling overwhelmed by connection show up in day-to-day life.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Nicola will discuss options with clients and decide together which methods fit best for the person’s goals, preferences and life situation. That planning is collaborative and can change as therapy progresses.
Online sessions are offered by registered or accredited professionals via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging. Video calls let people use visual cues and practice skills in real time. Phone sessions can be a simpler option when bandwidth is limited or when a check-in is needed on a break from work. Live chat and text allow short, flexible exchanges when fitting therapy around a busy schedule. These formats make it easier to access help from home, work or while travelling and support continuity when life is unpredictable.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Grief
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Traumatic brain injury
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 4 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English
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