About Martha
Martha Cheesman is a counsellor who supports people facing phobias alongside anxiety, depression, trauma and relationship struggles. She works with worries about self-esteem, grief, addiction, intimacy and coping with life changes. Martha speaks English and Spanish and offers online sessions for people in the United Kingdom and beyond.
She trained and practised in counselling for ten years at a more specialised level, and previously worked in related roles for a further decade.
Background and approach
Martha is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, listed as BACP. Her approach combines several methods to match a person’s needs. She draws on client-centred ways of listening, attachment ideas about how relationships shape us, and cognitive-behavioural techniques to change unhelpful thoughts and habits.
She also brings existential and emotionally-focused perspectives when people want to look at meaning, loss and connection. In sessions she aims to create steady, practical work rather than quick fixes. That often means shorter practical exercises, talking through triggers, and using mindfulness or trauma-aware thinking when trauma is present.
Martha encourages small steps, such as breathing practices, behavioural experiments and relationship-focused conversations. People who choose her can expect collaborative planning about what to focus on, regular reviews of progress, and a calm, straightforward style. Her background across cultures informs a flexible way of working that tries to meet different needs without jargon.
Approaches that translate to online therapy
Martha often uses attachment-based ideas, client-centred listening and cognitive-behavioural techniques in online work. Attachment-based work looks at how early and current relationships shape fears and reactions, which can help with intimacy issues and phobias. Client-centred work focuses on being heard and understood, giving space for people to tell their story and decide what changes to make. Cognitive-behavioural techniques break down unhelpful thoughts and patterns into small steps, which is useful for managing anxiety and specific phobias.Finding the right combination of approaches is part of the process. Martha collaborates with each person to decide what to try first and adapts methods as progress is made. This means clients can experiment with practical tools and return to what helps most as goals shift.
Online therapy offers flexibility in format and pacing. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues, phone sessions are useful when bandwidth is limited or for shorter check-ins, and live chat or text-based messaging suit people who prefer writing or need on-the-go support. These options make it easier to fit sessions around work, caring duties or travel while keeping the therapeutic focus consistent.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Imago Relationship Therapy
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Experience
- 10 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English, Spanish
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