About Elaine
Elaine Messarra is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Texas with 26 years of psychotherapy experience. She uses a warm, patient style to help adults sort through anxiety, grief, trauma, relationship strain, and life changes. Elaine offers individual therapy to people age 18 and older and adapts her pace to each person's needs.
She previously worked as a teacher and school counselor for 20 years, and has also provided counseling to residents of nursing homes and assisted living.
Background and approach
That background gives her practical experience with aging, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and end-of-life concerns. Elaine says she has a special heart for educators and those who care for others. Her approach centers on client-centered therapy, which emphasizes active listening and meeting people where they are.
She also draws on cognitive behavioral techniques to address unhelpful thoughts and emotion-focused work to improve connection and intimacy. Mindfulness and narrative tools are used when helpful to change patterns and reframe painful stories. Elaine offers faith-informed options when requested, including prayer and Bible-based support, and she respects whatever role faith plays in a person’s life.
She describes therapy as a no-blame, judgement-free place where people can feel heard and validated. Sessions aim to leave people feeling lighter and more hopeful. Practical goals, clearer communication skills, and better coping strategies are common outcomes Elaine helps people work toward.
Her practice offers several remote session formats to fit different schedules.
How Elaine's approaches translate to online care
Client-centered therapy focuses on listening, empathy, and helping people set goals that matter to them; online sessions follow that same pace so conversations are guided by the person's needs. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors interact and uses practical tools to shift unhelpful patterns, which works well through video or phone sessions that include skill-building and homework. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) helps people identify and express emotions to improve connection and regulation, and it can be used in remote sessions to practice new ways of relating and responding.Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, history, and preferences, then try methods that fit. If something isn’t helping, adjustments are made together until the approach feels useful and manageable.
Online therapy offers flexibility for busy lives. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when visual cues matter. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth or camera use is limited. Live chat and text-based messaging can support quick check-ins, short reflections, or ongoing support between longer sessions. These options help people fit therapy into work, caregiving, or health-related schedules while keeping focus on practical coping skills and emotional progress.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Traumatic brain injury
- Trichotillomania
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 26 years
- Licensed
- Texas
- Languages
- English
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