About Brenda
Brenda Lauer is a Licensed Professional Counselor with 15 years of clinical experience in independent practice. She practices part time on Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday, typically in the afternoon Eastern Standard Time. Brenda has worked with people who have experienced anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress, and other challenges across many life situations.
Brenda keeps a warm and gentle style in sessions. She listens from the client's point of view and then helps expand perspective.
Background and approach
She emphasizes respect, compassion, and empathy while avoiding a one-size-fits-all plan. Her work draws on several evidence-informed approaches. Brenda uses cognitive behavioral techniques to notice and change unhelpful thinking and behavior.
She also incorporates Acceptance and Commitment Therapy ideas to clarify values and build practical action. Emotion-focused methods help when strong feelings need to be understood and soothed. Brenda has supported people with stress, trauma and abuse, grief, anger, and mood concerns.
She also addresses issues tied to adoption and foster care, aging, caregiving strain, chronic illness or pain, attachment and relationship struggles, body image, and communication problems. Clients can expect collaborative planning rather than a fixed protocol. Brenda aims to tailor sessions to what a person needs and prefers.
She works with individuals from many backgrounds, including military and first responders, and offers services to international clients in English.
Therapeutic approaches and online options
Brenda draws from cognitive behavioral therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to guide online work. Cognitive behavioral therapy helps people identify thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going and teaches practical skills to change them. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy focuses on clarifying what matters most and taking small steps toward those values even when emotions are hard to tolerate.Finding the right approach is part of the work. Brenda treats approach selection as a collaboration and will help clients decide which methods fit their goals, needs, and personal preferences. She adapts plans over time based on what is helping and what is not.
Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video lets people use visual cues and longer conversation windows, phone can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat supports brief check-ins, and text messaging is useful for short updates or reflections between sessions. These options help people fit therapy into busy schedules, manage energy levels, and access support from different locations.
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What this therapist works with
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Also listed
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Traumatic brain injury
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 15 years
- Licensed
- Missouri
- Languages
- English
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