About Melinda
Dr. Melinda Lawless Coker is a licensed marriage and family therapist with more than 32 years of clinical experience. She helps people handle anxiety, stress, depression, phobias, addiction, and relationship or intimacy concerns.
She also supports those coping with grief, ADHD, bipolar mood issues, trauma, and career or parenting stress. Her style is relational and direct. She emphasizes clear boundaries and helps people identify their emotional needs.
Sessions aim to build practical skills so people can make healthier choices and feel more grounded in day-to-day life.
Background and approach
Dr. Coker trained in Miami, Florida, and has worked in many settings. Her background includes personal psychotherapy, inpatient drug treatment, high school counseling, county drug programs, women’s prison work, and drug court treatment.
That range informs how she adapts strategies to different life situations. She draws on attachment-based ideas and client-centered principles to support stronger relationships with self and others. She also uses cognitive behavioral techniques and elements of dialectical behavior therapy to teach coping skills for intense emotions.
Existential perspectives are woven in when clients face meaning, choice, or life transitions. People who choose Dr. Coker can expect a collaborative process that balances emotional insight with concrete tools.
She welcomes questions and invites clients to discuss what will make therapy most useful for their goals and daily challenges.
How approach and online options work together
Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns in close relationships and helps people understand how early bonds affect current reactions and trust. It can be useful for people dealing with abandonment, attachment issues, or repeated relationship problems.Client-Centered Therapy centers on the person’s experience and priorities. The therapist listens with empathy and works to create space for people to find their own answers, which is helpful for self-esteem, grief, and life transitions.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) teaches practical ways to notice and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. It often helps with anxiety, phobias, depression, and coping skills for day-to-day stress.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what feels helpful. Together they decide which approaches to emphasize and adjust over time as needs change.
Online formats give flexible ways to keep therapy consistent. Video calls let the therapist and client meet face to face for deeper conversation. Phone sessions can fit into a short break or when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text messaging are useful for quick check-ins, homework prompts, or ongoing support between sessions. These options help people maintain progress while fitting therapy into their daily routines.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Trauma and abuse
- Traumatic brain injury
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 32 years
- Licensed
- Florida
- Languages
- English
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