About Dilshini
Dilshini Sandhu brings a human-centred, relational approach to therapy. She uses Client-Centred Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy to help people who feel overwhelmed by anxiety, stress, low mood, grief or traumatic experiences. Dilshini speaks plainly and listens closely, offering a calm space for people to talk through what matters to them.
She trained in psychology and the arts before moving into psychotherapy. That background shapes a practical, expressive style that values how people make sense of their lives.
Background and approach
She also completed a Master of Science in Psychology and Neuroscience at King’s College London and trained at the Metanoia Institute. Dilshini is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. She has six years of clinical experience supporting adults with a wide range of concerns.
Her current doctoral study looks at implicit bias and building therapeutic relationships across difference. She pays attention to cultural pressures that can affect how people seek help, particularly within South Asian communities. Sessions aim to be sensitive to those pressures while focusing on what the individual needs right now.
Dilshini describes her style as warm, collaborative and respectful. Therapy with her typically explores patterns in relationships, attachment and communication. She also supports people facing issues such as body image, chronic illness, caregiver stress, and identity concerns.
The work is paced to suit each person’s comfort and goals.
How relational approaches translate to online therapy
Client-Centred Therapy puts the person at the heart of sessions, focusing on warmth, acceptance and understanding to help people explore their feelings. This approach suits worries about anxiety, self-esteem and relationship patterns by creating space to speak and be heard.Emotionally-Focused Therapy concentrates on emotions and attachment patterns that shape how people relate. It helps identify emotional cycles and try new ways of connecting with oneself and others, which can be useful for grief, trauma responses and attachment difficulties.
Deciding which approach fits best is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about their needs, goals and preferences and then shape the way sessions proceed. That decision is collaborative and can change over time as progress and comfort levels become clearer.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different routines and needs. Video calls allow face-to-face discussion and visual cues. Phone sessions can be a good option when bandwidth is limited or a quieter check-in is needed. Chat and messaging suit people who prefer shorter, written exchanges or need flexibility around work and caregiving commitments.
These formats make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives while still using relational and emotion-focused methods to address concerns such as anxiety, trauma, grief and attachment issues.
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What this therapist works with
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Also listed
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 6 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English
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