About Amali
Amali Hapugoda is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, phobias and depression. She also supports those dealing with trauma, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, and problems linked to addiction. She writes simply and listens carefully to understand each person’s individual story before planning the next steps.
Amali practises using an integrative approach. That means she draws on different methods to meet the needs of the person in front of her.
Background and approach
Sessions focus on understanding the present, looking at past influences where helpful, and trying practical steps that can be used day to day. Her work often combines talking about feelings and patterns with gently challenging unhelpful thinking. Sessions can include short exercises or small goals to try between meetings.
The aim is to build manageable ways of coping and clearer choices for moving forward. Amali has ten years of professional experience and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. She works with adults from different backgrounds and tailors her approach to what each person needs at that time.
Therapy is offered online by video, phone, live chat or messaging. People who choose online sessions can expect practical flexibility for fitting therapy around work and life commitments. To start, a short questionnaire helps match a person to a suitable schedule and format.
How Amali applies therapeutic approaches online
Amali frequently combines Client-Centred Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in online work. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening closely and understanding each person without judgement, which helps when someone is finding it hard to name or trust their feelings. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours link together and offers practical strategies to change unhelpful patterns; it is often used for anxiety, phobias and low mood.Finding the right approach is part of the process. Amali will work with each person to test what feels helpful and adjust methods as needs and goals change. This is a collaborative process where the therapist and client agree on steps to try and review progress together.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging, which offer practical flexibility. Video is useful when visual cues help the conversation, while phone sessions often require less bandwidth and can fit into a work break. Live chat or messaging can suit quick check-ins, shorter reflections or people who prefer writing. These options make it easier to maintain regular sessions and try therapeutic work around daily life.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Bipolar disorder
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 10 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English
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