About Wendy
Wendy Kesel is a licensed clinical social worker in New York with 26 years of experience. She helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, and parenting challenges. Wendy focuses on creating a calm, nonjudgmental space so people can talk about what matters most.
She encourages straightforward conversation about feelings and daily struggles. Sessions are practical and aim to identify small steps clients can try between meetings. Wendy draws on approaches that help people notice patterns, learn calming skills, and strengthen connections with others.
Background and approach
People come to her for a range of concerns including grief, trauma and abuse, mood concerns such as depression and bipolar, and issues tied to identity including LGBT matters. She also supports clients handling life changes, career stress, caregiving burdens, and adoption and attachment issues. Wendy pays attention to how past losses or abandonment can shape current relationships.
Her work includes issues related to attention differences, communication problems, intimacy and commitment challenges, and problems with anger or self-esteem. She also helps people coping with medical challenges such as cancer and the stresses that come with caregiving. Wendy meets people where they are and helps them find workable strategies.
Wendy uses a blend of methods to match each person’s needs. She listens for what the client hopes to change and builds a plan together. The aim is steady progress through practical techniques and clearer choices.
Approach and online options for working together
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice unhelpful thoughts without getting stuck in them and focus on actions that match their values. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at links between thoughts, feelings, and behavior and teaches skills to change unhelpful patterns. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns in close relationships and helps people build more supported, trusting connections.Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each person to figure out which methods fit their goals and preferences. Together they will adjust techniques over time to match what is helpful and realistic for the client.
Online sessions are available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video calls let people use visual cues and longer conversations. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is low or when a shorter check-in suits the day. Live chat and messaging allow ongoing support and brief check-ins between longer sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, caregiving, and busy schedules while keeping the focus on practical progress.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Parenting issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Experience
- 26 years
- Licensed
- New York
- Languages
- English
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