About Hillary
Dr. Hillary Schaefer welcomes people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, or life changes. She introduces herself plainly and aims to make starting therapy less stressful.
Dr. Schaefer has 12 years of experience and works from New York as a licensed psychologist in New York and Washington. She offers sessions that focus on practical steps you can use between meetings.
Her style is collaborative and direct. She uses approaches like acceptance and commitment therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy to help people notice patterns and try small changes.
Background and approach
She also draws on client-centered and emotionally focused ideas to keep conversations grounded in what matters to each person. Her background includes work in clinic, hospital, and university settings, and she has experience directing a clinic that served families and children. That history gives her familiarity with a wide range of concerns, from mood and anxiety to relationship and parenting questions.
She also addresses challenges such as addiction, eating and sleeping issues, and caregiver stress. Sessions are designed to leave people with clear tools and next steps. Expect straightforward collaboration about goals and practical strategies to use between sessions.
The focus is on making progress that fits daily life. Dr. Schaefer asks clients to complete a short matching questionnaire to get started.
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging so people can choose the format that fits their schedule and needs.
Therapeutic approaches and online care
Dr. Schaefer uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help people notice difficult thoughts and choose actions that match their values. ACT can be useful for anxiety, stress, and situations where motivation feels stuck. She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify unhelpful thinking and test small behavior changes that reduce symptoms over time. CBT works well for anxiety, mood, and sleep or eating concerns. Client-Centered Therapy is another influence, which means conversations are guided by the person’s concerns and pace rather than a fixed agenda.Finding the right approach is part of the work together. She talks with each person about their goals and preferences and then tries methods that fit those needs. The process is collaborative - expect adjustments as progress and priorities change.
Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging so people can pick what fits their day. Video is useful for in-depth work and nonverbal cues, phone calls can be easier when bandwidth is limited, chat and messaging work well for brief check-ins or when someone prefers not to be on camera. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, caregiving, or medical schedules while keeping focus on practical tools and steady progress.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Parenting issues
- Self esteem
Also listed
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Relationship issues
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 12 years
- Licensed
- New York, Washington
- Languages
- English
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