About Richard
Richard Cox is a calm, direct counsellor who helps people who feel stuck in repeating patterns. He works with clients who know themselves well but still find the same reactions returning under stress. He frames difficulties as the nervous system doing what it learned long ago, not as a personal failure.
His approach focuses on three clear areas: the feelings someone avoids, the bodily anxiety that controls those feelings, and the unnoticed patterns that keep them stuck.
Background and approach
Sessions are active and grounded rather than purely conversational. Richard pays attention to what happens in the body and between counsellor and client as much as to life history. In practice he looks at how anxiety appears physically, how a person moves away from certain emotions, and how those movements shape relationships and daily life.
He helps people experiment with small changes so the nervous system can have new emotional experiences. That is where lasting shifts often begin. Richard has worked for eight years and holds BACP accreditation, with more than 4,000 clinical hours.
He has broad experience with anxiety, trauma and early emotional wounding, relationship and attachment difficulties, and long-standing patterns that don’t shift with talking alone. People who come to him are often thoughtful and capable yet feel stuck inside despite seeming fine outwardly. He is calm, engaged, and will gently challenge avoidance while pacing the work to each person’s readiness.
Approach-driven online therapy that notices the body
Richard uses Attachment-Based and Client-Centred approaches in his online work. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and helps people understand how they relate to others. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the person’s experience and pace, offering acceptance and a steady presence so people can explore feelings they have been avoiding.Finding the right approach is part of the work. He collaborates with clients to decide which methods fit their needs and preferences. That means trying things together, checking how the body and emotions respond, and adjusting the way sessions are run if something feels off or unhelpful.
Online sessions can be done by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. Video is useful for sensing non-verbal cues and doing somatic-focused work, phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited, and messaging suits short check-ins or reflections between longer sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day and to keep continuity when life is changing.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 8 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English
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