About Alexandra
Alexandra Skan is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom who helps people facing stress, anxiety, addictions and trauma. She also supports those dealing with low self-esteem, depression, relationship and family concerns, grief and intimacy-related issues. Alexandra writes plainly and listens without judgement to help people find clearer ways forward.
She brings four years of professional counselling experience alongside a longer history of work with addictions and substance misuse.
Background and approach
That practical background means she is familiar with craving, relapse triggers and the everyday strain addiction can place on a person and their relationships. Alexandra's style is warm and interactive. Sessions are person-centred and conversational, so clients set the pace and focus.
She uses practical tools from cognitive behavioural therapy to spot unhelpful patterns and to try out different ways of thinking and acting. She also draws on attachment-based ideas to look at how early connections shape current reactions. Mindfulness practices are offered to help manage strong emotions and ground attention when anxiety or distress feels overwhelming.
Therapy is tailored to the individual. Alexandra works with each person to agree goals and steps that fit their life. She aims to make the steps manageable, whether someone is coping with major life changes, compassion fatigue, or ongoing mood difficulties.
How therapy approaches work online
Alexandra uses cognitive behavioural therapy to help people spot and change unhelpful thoughts and habits. CBT often involves simple exercises between sessions to try new behaviours and reduce anxiety or low mood.She also uses attachment-based ideas to explore how early relationships affect current responses. That can help when patterns around trust, closeness or fear of abandonment get in the way of daily life.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Alexandra will discuss goals, preferences and what feels most useful, then agree a plan together. The process is collaborative so adjustments can be made as therapy progresses.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to fit different needs. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation, phone sessions can be easier when internet is limited, and chat or messaging suit quick check-ins or those who prefer not to use a camera. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and travel commitments.
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What this therapist works with
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Traumatic brain injury
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 4 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English
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